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posted by b, 25.01.2007, 10:22

Maneless-
Point is that you can't speak for all women and all men. Perhaps you have been rejected or turned down because you're bald. That sucks if it is the case. I am sure some women are in fact like that but not all! That's the point! And you can't speak for all men. I know so many bald men who are dating or are married or are very happy and don't feel rejected by women. So we are irritated that you think all women are liars, that all women aren't attracted to bald men because that's just not the case! Just like it's just not the case that not all bald men are disliked! Sucks that you feel that way but not all women think bald men are unattractive. I'm sorry if some of the women that do this have done it to you, that's not your fault but please stop insinuating that all women are the same.

There's a difference between having meaningful conversations and the conversations you have posted. Your posts originally started along the lines of "why don't you women just shave your head and live happily with it...." and whether you meant to be insulting or not, that's how it came across.

ť No, I am not contradicting myself. I am very consistant if you would stop
ť to think. In order to first get you all to look at the idea of being less
ť focused on your own hairloss and to consider how you all have treated
ť others in the past who didn't get to be beautiful I FIRST HAVE TO GET YOU
ť ALL TO REALIZE THAT YOU ARE ALL IN DENIAL ABOUT EXCLUDING PEOPLE IN THE
ť PAST FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS. First you have to accept the truth that
ť your entire sugar-and-spice image is all false. You are just as
ť self-serving as a man is, and you can be just as cruel as men can be when
ť it comes to shunning people for all the wrong reason.
ť
ť I absolutely, totally, 100% do forgive women for lying about not liking
ť bald men. I just want women to stop it. Women are undervaluing the
ť complaint of the male hairloss victim. Women are invalidating men's
ť complaints about male hairloss. If women would accept the truth that
ť women are disinterested in bald men then women would realize that men's
ť sex/romantic lives are in major jeapardy when men lose hair. And people
ť who have happy sex/romantic lives are healthier and they live longer so
ť this means that bald men, who's sex/romantic lives are in jeapardy as a
ť result of hairloss, are also subjected to worse health and shorter life
ť spans than attractive men with hair. I also feel that women dealing with
ť hairloss are likewise subject to worse health and shorter lifespans owing
ť to their own hairloss, and I think that is very very tragic.
ť
ť I do not want to belittle you or women in general, but by lying about
ť their disinterest in bald men women add insult to injury. Women insult us
ť bald men as vain crybabies because we want hair even as women favor the
ť goodlooking guys with hair. And all the while this is going on we bald
ť men are suffering worse health and shorter lifespans due to our lack of
ť happy romantic lives. I'm not mad at women about this. I accept that
ť some people have less happy and shorter lives and I am to be one of those
ť people. There are people in war ravaged areas who have shorter and less
ť happy lives. I am no better than those people, and I have no more right
ť to a great long life than those people do. I understand all of that, but
ť I still think that everything, including hairloss, is a learning
ť experience, and I think we can turn lemons into lemonaide by trying to
ť grow beyond the looksism that we are both the victims of, and the past
ť perpetrators of.
ť
ť I am not looking for a date here. I am trying to have meaningful
ť discussion with women here. I promise I will not seriously pickup on any
ť of the women here. I'm just seeking interesting dialogue, and trying to
ť cope and learn.
ť
ť I'm a realist. I know that all people, myself included, lie. We are not
ť perfect, and I do not expect perfection from people. But this particular
ť lie (women lying about their disinterest in bald men) is hurting men. It
ť doesn't permit us to even be unhappy about our hairloss because when women
ť claim that women don't care about a man's hair women are basically saying
ť that we bald men who are complaining about hairloss really have no reason
ť to complain about our hairloss. And you know that, that is a lie. You
ť know that women prefer the men with hair. With your denials about your
ť disinterest in bald men you are taking a reasonable gripe away from us
ť bald men. Baldness is doing a lot of damage to my life, just like it
ť does a lot of damage to a woman's life, and for the same reasons. I
ť respect a woman's complaint about her hairloss, but she does not respect
ť my complaint about my hairloss. Meanwhile the truth is that women do not
ť want bald men. And the men who are unwanted have less healthy lives and
ť shorter lives. Period.
ť
ť
ť ť Maneless, You are unbelievable. You are now totally contradicting
ť ť yourself!!! In this post you say: "we should be learning something
ť from
ť ť this; we should all try to become better, more forgiving people." Give
ť me
ť ť a f**king break!!! YOU need to do these things!!! You're the one who
ť ť can't forgive women who lie to you about not liking bald men. Instead,
ť ť ALL women are therefore liars. You will post anything to always make
ť ť yourself right and belittle the person who is responding to you. I'm
ť ť telling you, if you would just stop telling us women what liars we are
ť you
ť ť might actually get some positive responses. Who knows! Maybe you
ť could
ť ť actually MEET a woman here.

b is located in [NA] and he is available to meet: YES

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Complete thread:

Are you bald women having man problems?????? - maneless, 18.01.2007, 10:53
- No, are you?? - jane, 18.01.2007, 12:51
  - No, are you?? - maneless, 18.01.2007, 15:30
  - Oh, and Jane, I almost forgot: Happy New Year!!!!! - maneless, 18.01.2007, 15:32
    - Poor thing - Jane, 18.01.2007, 16:06
      - Hope the money keeps rolling in - jane, 18.01.2007, 16:10
        Hope the money keeps rolling in - maneless, 18.01.2007, 17:22
        Hope the money keeps rolling in - Jane, 18.01.2007, 17:39
        Hope the money keeps rolling in - maneless, 19.01.2007, 09:51
        IGNORE IT. IT WILL GO AWAY.......... - m, 19.01.2007, 13:46
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 20.01.2007, 12:13
        to maneless - Carrie, 20.01.2007, 15:12
        to maneless - maneless, 26.01.2007, 10:53
        to maneless - Carrie, 30.01.2007, 15:47
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - amy to maneless, 20.01.2007, 15:13
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 26.01.2007, 11:22
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - Deb, 21.01.2007, 06:21
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - kam, 22.01.2007, 10:02
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 26.01.2007, 11:55
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - kam, 26.01.2007, 12:45
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 29.01.2007, 09:41
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - kam, 29.01.2007, 11:13
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 29.01.2007, 16:48
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - to maneless, 29.01.2007, 19:08
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 30.01.2007, 11:14
        do U have the honesty/guts 2 answer this qustion truthfully? - maneless, 26.01.2007, 11:28
        I have an idea! - d, 02.02.2007, 13:02
        I have an idea! - maneless, 04.02.2007, 15:35
        I have an idea! - d, 05.02.2007, 13:43
        I have an idea! - maneless, 05.02.2007, 15:22
        Hey D, I want to say something else to you - maneless, 05.02.2007, 16:33
        IGNORE IT. IT WILL GO AWAY.......... - Allie, 22.01.2007, 09:52
      - Poor thing - b, 22.01.2007, 09:47
        Maneless: do you have the guts to answer truthfully - d, 23.01.2007, 14:24
        Maneless, Get over it! - d, 24.01.2007, 11:06
        Maneless, Get over it! - maneless, 24.01.2007, 20:46
        Maneless, Get over it! - d, 25.01.2007, 07:41
        Maneless, Get over it! - maneless, 25.01.2007, 09:21
        Maneless, Get over it! - b, 25.01.2007, 10:22
      - Poor thing - maneless, 25.01.2007, 16:59
        Poor thing - amy606, 26.01.2007, 16:39
        to Maneless - TS, 07.02.2007, 11:52
        to Maneless - amy606 to ts, 08.02.2007, 04:00
        to Maneless - lee, 16.03.2007, 18:04
        to Maneless - maneless, 06.04.2007, 07:54
        to Maneless - maneless, 06.04.2007, 09:19
        to Maneless - maneless, 06.04.2007, 09:15
        to Maneless - maneless, 06.04.2007, 09:12