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posted by helpme007, 28.05.2008, 08:13

we hang out on a hairloss site. so we all care very much about our appearance. i think if we would have high self-esteem we wouldnt do so. who of you can say of himself that he has high self-esteem? i think less people in here can say that. i cant exclude myself, coz my self-esteem isnt the best aswell. we are a bit like little girls who want to be pretty. isn't it?

we are supposed to be men. not little girls. lets make a commitment that we work on our self-esteem. it only can be good for everyone in here. a friend of mine said, someone who wants to fix something on his appearance has low self-esteem. i cant completley agree with that, but in some kinds its true.

well, the harder you try with your hair, the less is your self-esteem... i think.

what is the worst case is if you really suffer from your hairloss. that means you have low self-esteem from beginning and that you suffer from your hairloss makes your self-esteem even lower. the way out of that is probably working on your self-esteem as an own part of yours. and to try not relate it so much anymore with your appearance.

dunno what i want to say with that , it just crossed my mind. but its not meant to be an attack, dont get me wrong, i dont want anyone get upset about my post.

im at an internet-forum to pick-up girls. there people part girls in HSE (high self esteem) and LSE (low self esteem) girls. i think many in here are LSE, myself included. LSE people try to look their best, try to act like they have high self esteem to not show their low self-esteem. but deep down in them, they are insecure.

you can easyly detect LSE girls, coz they always wear make-up, say nasty things and you can easyly make them upset. they make party much and dont like normal life.

well, now im a bit off-topic. what do you think? are you self-confident or not?

there is a saying which is "fake it till you make it". maybe im gona try that. normally im insecure and i show it. dont get me wrong, im not a nerd who doesnt go out and is too insecure to talk to people but i get often said that im insecure and show it. another friend of mine is insecure, too. i know that coz he told me, but he acts confident, so he plays a role. im gona try that too.

thx for listening. i know, probably noone is gona read that anyway, but if you made it until here, please write an answer.

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isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - helpme007, 28.05.2008, 08:13
- isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 28.05.2008, 09:19
  - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - helpme007, 28.05.2008, 09:42
- isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - TylerDurden, 31.05.2008, 13:41
  - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - Jtelecom, 31.05.2008, 14:12
    - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - TylerDurden, 31.05.2008, 15:14
      - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - Jtelecom, 31.05.2008, 15:34
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - HanginInThere, 05.07.2008, 20:43
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 06.07.2008, 03:26
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - HanginInThere, 06.07.2008, 04:08
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 06.07.2008, 13:49
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 08.07.2008, 04:02
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 08.07.2008, 12:25
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 11.07.2008, 11:49
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 11.07.2008, 16:54
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 12.07.2008, 02:55
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 12.07.2008, 15:30
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 13.07.2008, 00:18
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - xbeliever, 27.07.2008, 18:04

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