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isn't it that we all have low self-esteem (Support & General Discussions)

posted by TylerDurden, 31.05.2008, 13:41

I think you are trying to associate everyone on this forum with yourself too much. You seem to be under the illusion that hair will give you confidence. It won't.

I have friends with a great head of hair that have absolutely no self esteem. Self confidence is something that is built on as you grow as a person, there's no magic fix. I think you're right in the sense that the majority of people lack self confidence, but that isn't confined to people who are balding. In my opinion, in the culture that we live in here in the west, true self confidence is very rare, most people that may seem to exude confidence are probably just as insecure as you are, just for different reasons.

No I know assumptions are never a good thing, but i'm going to take guess that you're lack of confidence goes deeper than you hair. Hair isnt the be all and end all; unless a hair transplant is up your street it's something that you can't control. I suggest you try to improve other aspects of your life and your confidence will grow with them. As for women, they are far more interested in a motivated, genuinely nice and confident person than someone with a full head of hair and nothing else to show for it. You can work out to improve your body image, try to improve your career prospects, voltunteer, run a marathon, travel the world, learn a musical instrument, take up a martial art...to name a few - the possibilities are limitless.

I think you'll find a large majority of the people that visit this forum don't even post and don't suffer from a chronic lack of self esteem and belief. For me, I use this forum to just check every nown again to see if there is some progress and because I find it quite interesting, but you can't halt your life waiting for something that may never happen.

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isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - helpme007, 28.05.2008, 08:13
- isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 28.05.2008, 09:19
  - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - helpme007, 28.05.2008, 09:42
- isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - TylerDurden, 31.05.2008, 13:41
  - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - Jtelecom, 31.05.2008, 14:12
    - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - TylerDurden, 31.05.2008, 15:14
      - isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - Jtelecom, 31.05.2008, 15:34
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - HanginInThere, 05.07.2008, 20:43
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 06.07.2008, 03:26
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - HanginInThere, 06.07.2008, 04:08
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 06.07.2008, 13:49
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 08.07.2008, 04:02
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 08.07.2008, 12:25
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 11.07.2008, 11:49
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 11.07.2008, 16:54
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 12.07.2008, 02:55
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - brm, 12.07.2008, 15:30
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - cal, 13.07.2008, 00:18
        isn't it that we all have low self-esteem - xbeliever, 27.07.2008, 18:04

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