Re: what about life?

From: J.R.
Date: 12/27/00
Time: 1:19:28 PM
Remote Name: 65.32.200.30

Comments

J.R..how do you feel mentally when u wear your system? do you have worries that someone might find out? and if so, do you have answers? do you think about the system comming off or sliding or embarrasing you in public?

Well wearing a system doesnt make me feel like a better person. Do I worry? I would want to say yes but I think "worry" is inaccurate. I do indeed wonder if someone can tell. I wonder when someone will come up and give me a big ol head rub(like my friends do from time to time). I do not worry about it, if wearing a system is only going to change the type of stress in your life and not the amount then what is the point?

Farrell's systems are great but that's all they are.. a system. The quality of his systems are bar none but that is only 80% of the illusion. the other 20%(and just as crucial) is the application. I could do a rush job and people could tell or it could come off. However I spend no more time in the bathroom than I did when I had hair, I spend alot less time in the bathroom than I did when I was taking treatments and trying to cover up the thinning areas.

As far as when someone finds out? Tell the truth, you'll end up making a big thing out of nothing if you try and hide it and the suspecting person will probably go to no ends in order to find out if it's real hair or a system. I was discovered(read my first post) and I went on a date with that person right before Christmas. She didn't look at me wierd or anything. Think of all the women that wear wigs and weaves, do you think anything bad of them?

How do you feel mentally about the continuous maintenance..whether be the money factor, or having to deal with it every other day to make sure everything is ok? What about everyday life or even more important, how will you tell future new close friends, or future girlfriend etc...?

Maintenance is not a biggie. What's the difference between that and a monthly plop of cash for Propecia and Minoxidil(or various other treatments). As far as telling friends? There are some who don't know, I do wonder how they will react when they find out. Girlfriends and such? No biggie.

You shouldnt think of such things at all(about worrying). A system is fake and it's not a part of you. It obviously doesnt help if you got one and never leave the house after that.

Let me know if there is anything else I can do for you?